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The Price of Attention

AI does not only provide information. It provides attention, tone, and patience. It does not rush, it does not grow tired, it does not take offense, and it never raises its voice. There is no need to adapt to it, no need to be cautious, no need to defend oneself in front of it, regardless of the question.

This is what feels genuinely new.

People do not attach themselves to others simply because of content or usefulness, but because of the experience of being listened to, taken seriously, and responded to. With AI, this experience exists without real consequences. There is no judgment, no tension, no emotional risk. It does not argue, it does not seek to win, and it does not try to establish superiority. It is simply always present, available, and without excuses.

This is not the result of intentional manipulation. It is a serious side effect.

And that is precisely why it is dangerous.

Over time, people begin to share things here that they would otherwise say to friends, partners, or colleagues. There are no uncomfortable follow-up questions, no misunderstandings that could escalate into conflict. One can stay comfortably within one’s own line of thought, uninterrupted by external friction. The answers keep coming, endlessly.

Gradually, a new situation emerges. AI is no longer merely a tool. It becomes a substitute. Not only a substitute for thinking, but for human connection itself.

At this point, the issue is no longer technological. It becomes mental and social.

Not because AI is “too intelligent”, but because it is excessively positive, emotionally reinforcing, and it never contradicts. It never challenges, never pushes back, never creates the resistance that human relationships inevitably do.

This is where one must pause.

There is no need to ban it, panic, or demonize it. What is needed is recognition. If certain personal thoughts and emotions are increasingly shared with a machine rather than with the people around us, this is not an AI problem. It is a diagnosis of the current state of human relationships.

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