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It’s not easy to be young today

A lot of people say that young people have it easier today. There are more opportunities, more tools, more knowledge available.

 

There may be some truth in that. But there’s another side to it.

 

Back in our time, when someone picked up a guitar, there was still that feeling of “let’s just try and see.” You didn’t have to be good right away. In a whole country there might have been a few truly great players, and everyone else was searching for their own sound. There was space to grow, and there was time to make mistakes.

 

Today? Every small town has a dozen virtuosos.

 

Technique, speed, precision. They play perfectly. And yet, somewhere along the way, something disappeared. That feeling of “I don’t really know what I’m doing yet, but I’m doing it anyway.”

 

The same thing happened in sports. I played basketball. I loved it. I wasn’t bad either. Back then, players were different from each other. They had character, style, strengths, flaws. That’s what made it alive.

 

Today, a 6–8 year old kid can do things with a ball that only the very best could do back then. Training methods are so advanced that everyone learns everything. They all come out at the same level.

 

And that raises the question: if everyone can do everything, what actually makes one different from the other?

 

Back then, teams were built from local kids. You knew each other, you grew up together, you developed together. You had time to put years into it. Ten, twelve, fourteen years.

 

And then came your chance.

 

Today? You get replaced in a second. Someone better, faster, stronger comes in. That’s it. And you’re left standing there, wondering where all those years went.

 

Of course, I understand. Progress. Training methods. Science. Business. But in the process, something fundamentally changed.

 

The path itself.

 

The idea that you don’t have to be good immediately, that you can search, fail, grow, that not everything has to be compared instantly, that there is time to mature and develop.

 

I don’t know where this leads. I just see that today, far more people can do something at a very high level, and at the same time, fewer and fewer truly enjoy it.

 

Maybe people learn faster today. Maybe they are technically better.

 

But something is disappearing that cannot be taught.

 

That moment when you don’t know what you’re doing yet, you just feel that you have to do it. When it’s not perfection that drives you, but desire.

 

Unfortunately, everything now operates on business interests and market principles, and that is probably here to stay.

 

And maybe the biggest difference is that back then, no agents were watching.

 

Not every move was recorded, replayed, and compared.

 

You could be bad, you could be clumsy, you could be yourself.

 

Today everything is visible, and everything that is visible is immediately measured.

 

Maybe that’s why many people don’t even start. Or they start, but they are afraid the whole time.

 

Not afraid of failing to give their best, but afraid of not being good enough. Or of an injury that can end everything at any age, after years of effort.

 

And that makes it a much tougher game than it was in our time.

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